@deina-labs/deina-core 1.1.0 → 1.1.2

package/src/quiz-questions.ts

@@ -71,6 +71,8 @@ export interface StandardQuestion {
   key: StandardQuality;
   label: string;
   description: string;
+  type?: 'scale' | 'options';
+  options?: string[];
 }
 
 export const STANDARDS_QUALITIES: StandardQuestion[] = [
@@ -78,61 +80,75 @@ export const STANDARDS_QUALITIES: StandardQuestion[] = [
     key: 'physicalAttraction',
     label: 'Physical Attraction',
     description:
-      'When deciding whether to pursue someone seriously, how important is feeling strong physical attraction and chemistry?',
+      'Be honest — how much does physical attraction control whether you give someone a real chance?',
   },
   {
     key: 'emotionalStability',
     label: 'Emotional Stability',
     description:
-      'When disagreements or stressful situations come up, how important is it that he stays calm, grounded, and emotionally regulated?',
+      'When things get tense, how much do you need him to stay calm — or do you secretly tolerate emotional chaos?',
   },
   {
     key: 'emotionalAvailability',
     label: 'Emotional Availability',
     description:
-      'As a relationship develops, how important is it that he openly expresses his feelings and is clear about his relationship intentions?',
+      'How much do you actually need him to be emotionally open — or have you learned to accept silence as normal?',
   },
   {
     key: 'communicationFrequency',
-    label: 'Communication Frequency',
+    label: 'Communication',
     description:
-      "When you're getting to know someone, how important is consistent communication so you feel connected and secure?",
+      'How much does inconsistent communication mess with your head — or have you trained yourself not to care?',
   },
   {
     key: 'initiativeAndEffort',
     label: 'Initiative & Effort',
     description:
-      'As dating progresses, how important is it that he takes initiative — planning dates, making effort, and showing increasing investment over time?',
+      'How much do you need him to lead — or have you gotten used to being the one who plans everything?',
   },
   {
     key: 'followThrough',
     label: 'Follow-Through',
     description:
-      'When someone makes plans or says they will do something, how important is it that they reliably follow through?',
+      'He said he\'d call. He didn\'t. What do you actually do?',
+    type: 'options',
+    options: [
+      'I let it go — people forget',
+      'I notice but don\'t say anything',
+      'I bring it up directly',
+      'I start pulling back without telling him why',
+    ],
   },
   {
     key: 'financialResponsibility',
     label: 'Financial Responsibility',
     description:
-      'When evaluating long-term compatibility, how important is financial stability and responsible money management?',
+      'How much does his money situation actually matter to you — even if you don\'t want to admit it?',
   },
   {
     key: 'lifestyleAlignment',
     label: 'Lifestyle Alignment',
     description:
-      'How important is it that your routines, habits, social life, and lifestyle naturally align?',
+      'How much do you need your lives to actually fit together — or do you convince yourself differences don\'t matter?',
   },
   {
     key: 'longTermGoals',
     label: 'Long-Term Goals',
     description:
-      'When considering a serious relationship, how important is alignment on long-term goals such as commitment, marriage, or children?',
+      'You\'re months in and he still hasn\'t mentioned the future. What do you do?',
+    type: 'options',
+    options: [
+      'I bring it up — I need to know',
+      'I drop hints and hope he gets it',
+      'I wait for him to bring it up',
+      'I avoid it because I\'m scared of what he\'ll say',
+    ],
   },
   {
     key: 'weeklyConsistency',
     label: 'Weekly Consistency',
     description:
-      'As a relationship develops, how important is seeing each other consistently — at least once per week?',
+      'How much does it bother you when you go a whole week without seeing him — or have you convinced yourself that\'s normal?',
   },
 ];
 
@@ -149,67 +165,67 @@ export const TIMELINE_QUESTIONS: TimelineQuestion[] = [
   {
     key: 'firstDateWindow',
     question:
-      'When you first start talking to someone, how soon do you expect the first date to happen?',
-    options: ['3–5 days', '1 week', '2 weeks', '3–4 weeks', 'No expectation'],
+      'How long are you willing to text someone before you need a real date — or do you let it drag on?',
+    options: ['3–5 days', '1 week', '2 weeks', '3–4 weeks', 'I don\'t push for it'],
   },
   {
     key: 'secondDateWindow',
     question:
-      'After a good first date, how soon would you expect a second date to be planned?',
-    options: ['3–5 days', '1 week', '2 weeks', 'No specific expectation'],
+      'After a first date that went well, how long can you wait before the silence starts getting to you?',
+    options: ['3–5 days', '1 week', '2 weeks', 'I try not to think about it'],
   },
   {
     key: 'preFirstDatePreferences',
     question:
-      'Before meeting someone in person for the first time, what helps you feel comfortable moving forward?',
-    options: ['A call or FaceTime', 'A clear plan', 'Consistent texting', 'Not important'],
+      'Before meeting him in person, what do you actually need to feel safe — or do you skip that part when you\'re excited?',
+    options: ['A call or FaceTime', 'A clear plan', 'Consistent texting', 'I don\'t need anything'],
     multiSelect: true,
   },
   {
     key: 'communicationCadence',
     question:
-      "When you're getting to know someone new, what level of communication makes you feel secure and interested?",
-    options: ['Daily', 'Every other day', '2–3 times per week', 'Only when planning'],
+      'How often do you need to hear from someone before the anxiety kicks in?',
+    options: ['Daily', 'Every other day', '2–3 times per week', 'Only when there\'s a plan'],
   },
   {
     key: 'exclusivityExpectation',
     question:
-      'As a relationship develops, when would you expect exclusivity to be discussed or established?',
-    options: ['3–5 dates', '6–8 dates', '2 months', '3 months', 'No fixed expectation'],
+      'How long can you date someone without knowing where you stand — before it starts eating at you?',
+    options: ['3–5 dates', '6–8 dates', '2 months', '3 months', 'I avoid bringing it up'],
   },
   {
     key: 'intentionClarity',
     question:
-      'By when do you expect clarity about whether someone is looking for a serious relationship?',
+      'How long do you let someone keep things vague before you demand to know what they actually want?',
     options: [
       'Before date 2',
       'Within 1 month',
       'Within 2 months',
       'After 3 months',
-      'No defined timeline',
+      'I wait for them to bring it up',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'meetFriendsFamily',
     question:
-      "In a developing relationship, when does it feel appropriate to begin meeting each other's friends or family?",
+      'How long into dating before you need to exist in his real life — not just in his DMs?',
     options: [
       '1–2 months',
       '3 months',
       '6 months',
       'Only after exclusivity',
-      'Not important',
+      'I don\'t push for it',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'progressionPace',
     question:
-      'Which description best reflects the relationship pace that feels most natural to you?',
+      'What pace do you actually move at — not what you tell yourself, but what you do?',
     options: [
-      'Fast and intentional',
-      'Structured and steady',
-      'Gradual over time',
-      'Undefined / organic',
+      'I move fast when I\'m excited',
+      'I try to stay structured',
+      'I let things unfold slowly',
+      'I go with whatever he sets',
     ],
   },
 ];
@@ -220,113 +236,113 @@ export const MINDSET_QUESTIONS: MindsetQuestion[] = [
   {
     key: 'standardsConfidence',
     question:
-      'When you really like someone, how confident do you usually feel that your standards are reasonable and deserved?',
+      'When you really like someone, do your standards hold — or do you start telling yourself you\'re asking for too much?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: "I often worry I'm asking for too much",
-    scaleMaxLabel: 'I feel confident my standards are valid',
+    scaleMinLabel: 'I start doubting what I deserve',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'My standards don\'t move',
   },
   {
     key: 'effortInterpretation',
     question:
-      'If someone you like begins putting in less effort, what is your most common first thought?',
+      'He used to text you back fast. Now he takes hours. What\'s your first instinct?',
     type: 'options',
     options: [
-      "Maybe I'm expecting too much",
-      "Maybe they're just busy",
-      'I notice the shift and start evaluating the situation',
-      'I lose interest quickly',
+      'I probably did something wrong',
+      'He\'s just busy, I shouldn\'t overthink it',
+      'I notice it and start watching more closely',
+      'I match his energy and pull back',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'comparativeAttraction',
     question:
-      'When dating someone you find extremely attractive, how likely are you to feel they may have more options than you?',
+      'When he\'s more attractive than your usual type, how often do you feel like you need to try harder to keep him?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: 'Very likely',
-    scaleMaxLabel: 'Not at all',
+    scaleMinLabel: 'Almost always',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'Never — I know my worth',
   },
   {
     key: 'behavioralAdjustment',
     question:
-      'When you feel very attracted to someone, how often do you find yourself adjusting your behavior to keep their interest?',
+      'How often do you become a different version of yourself to keep someone interested?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: 'Very often',
-    scaleMaxLabel: 'Rarely',
+    scaleMinLabel: 'More than I\'d like to admit',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'I don\'t change for anyone',
   },
   {
     key: 'scarcityMindset',
     question:
-      'When you meet someone who seems like a great match, how often do you feel pressure to make the connection work?',
+      'When you finally meet someone who feels right, how much pressure do you put on yourself not to lose them?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: 'Very often',
-    scaleMaxLabel: 'Rarely',
+    scaleMinLabel: 'A lot — good ones are rare',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'None — the right one won\'t leave',
   },
   {
     key: 'ambiguityTolerance',
     question:
-      "When someone you're dating becomes less responsive or harder to read, what tends to happen internally?",
+      'He\'s been dry all day. No explanation. What happens in your head?',
     type: 'options',
     options: [
-      'I start replaying conversations and wondering what I might have done wrong',
-      'I assume they may be losing interest and begin worrying about where things stand',
-      'I notice the shift and start paying closer attention to their behavior',
-      "I don't think about it much unless the pattern continues",
+      'I replay everything trying to figure out what I did',
+      'I convince myself he\'s losing interest and start spiraling',
+      'I notice it but wait to see if it\'s a pattern',
+      'I genuinely don\'t think about it',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'statusComparison',
     question:
-      "If someone you're dating is highly attractive, successful, or socially impressive, how likely are you to feel pressure to 'match their level'?",
+      'When he\'s more successful, better looking, or more popular than you — do you feel like you need to earn your place?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: 'Very likely',
-    scaleMaxLabel: 'Not at all',
+    scaleMinLabel: 'Yes — I feel the pressure',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'No — I belong wherever I am',
   },
   {
     key: 'emotionalInvestmentSpeed',
     question:
-      'When you meet someone you feel strong chemistry with, how quickly do you usually become emotionally invested?',
+      'You had one amazing date. How fast are you already imagining a future with him?',
     type: 'options',
     options: [
-      'Very quickly',
-      'Somewhat quickly',
-      'Gradually over time',
-      'Slowly and cautiously',
+      'Immediately — I can already picture it',
+      'Pretty fast — I get excited easily',
+      'I enjoy it but stay grounded',
+      'I don\'t let myself go there yet',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'fearOfLosingConnection',
     question:
-      'When you sense someone pulling away slightly, how strong is your instinct to try to restore the connection?',
+      'He\'s pulling away. You can feel it. How strong is the urge to chase?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: 'Very strong',
-    scaleMaxLabel: 'Very weak',
+    scaleMinLabel: 'I\'d do almost anything to fix it',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'I let him go without a fight',
   },
   {
     key: 'fulfillmentOutsideDating',
     question:
-      "When you're not actively dating someone, how fulfilled does your life typically feel?",
+      'When you\'re single and no one is texting you — how does your life actually feel?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: 'I often feel something important is missing',
-    scaleMaxLabel: 'My life feels full and satisfying',
+    scaleMinLabel: 'Like something important is missing',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'Full and complete on its own',
   },
   {
     key: 'validationSensitivity',
     question:
-      "When someone you're attracted to shows strong interest in you, how much does it affect your attraction to them?",
+      'When someone you like suddenly shows heavy interest — does it make you like them more, or does it not change anything?',
     type: 'scale',
-    scaleMinLabel: 'It increases my attraction significantly',
-    scaleMaxLabel: "It doesn't change my attraction much",
+    scaleMinLabel: 'It hooks me instantly',
+    scaleMaxLabel: 'It doesn\'t change how I feel',
   },
   {
     key: 'relationshipRole',
     question:
-      'When you imagine being in a relationship right now, what role does it most feel like it would play in your life?',
+      'If you got into a relationship tomorrow, what would it really be for?',
     type: 'options',
     options: [
-      'It would enhance a life that already feels full and satisfying',
-      'It would add companionship and shared experiences to my life',
-      'It would fill a gap I currently feel in my life',
-      'It would make me feel more secure, valued, or "chosen"',
+      'It would add to a life that\'s already good',
+      'It would give me companionship I\'m missing',
+      'It would fill a void I feel right now',
+      'It would finally make me feel chosen',
     ],
   },
 ];
@@ -343,44 +359,44 @@ export const ENFORCEMENT_QUESTIONS: EnforcementQuestion[] = [
   {
     key: 'cancelDowngrade',
     question:
-      'If someone cancels plans last minute without a strong reason, how many times does it take before you mentally downgrade their reliability?',
-    options: ['1 time', '2 times', '3+ times', 'Only if it becomes a pattern', 'I rarely downgrade'],
+      'He cancels on you last minute. Again. How many times do you let it slide before you actually do something about it?',
+    options: ['Once — that\'s enough', 'Twice — benefit of the doubt', '3+ times before I react', 'Only when it\'s clearly a pattern', 'I usually let it go'],
   },
   {
     key: 'noFollowUpResponse',
     question:
-      "After a date, if he doesn't follow up within about 24–48 hours, what is your typical reaction?",
+      'Great date. Then silence for two days. What do you actually do — not what you wish you did?',
     options: [
-      'Lose interest immediately',
-      'Mentally downgrade',
-      'Ask directly',
-      'Wait it out',
-      'Do nothing',
+      'I lose interest on the spot',
+      'I mentally mark it against him',
+      'I text him and ask directly',
+      'I wait and hope he reaches out',
+      'I pretend I didn\'t notice',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'effortDecreaseDowngrade',
     question:
-      'If his effort noticeably decreases after the first few dates, how quickly do you start reassessing the situation?',
-    options: ['First sign', 'Second sign', 'Clear pattern', 'I rarely downgrade'],
+      'His effort drops after the first few dates. The texts get shorter. The plans stop. How long do you pretend it\'s fine?',
+    options: ['I catch it immediately', 'I give it one more chance', 'I wait for a clear pattern', 'I usually don\'t pull back'],
   },
   {
     key: 'exclusivityNotDiscussed',
     question:
-      "If exclusivity hasn't been discussed by the timeline that feels right to you, what do you usually do next?",
-    options: ['End it', 'Initiate conversation', 'Give extra time', 'Continue casually'],
+      'You\'ve been dating for a while and he still hasn\'t brought up exclusivity. What do you actually do?',
+    options: ['I walk away', 'I bring it up myself', 'I give him more time', 'I keep going and hope it comes up'],
   },
   {
     key: 'redFlagSpeed',
     question:
-      'When early red flags appear while dating someone, how quickly do you tend to act on them?',
-    options: ['Immediately', 'After confirmation', 'After repeated behavior', 'Only if severe'],
+      'You see a red flag early. Something feels off. How long do you ignore it because everything else feels good?',
+    options: ['I don\'t — I act immediately', 'I wait to see it again before deciding', 'I need a pattern before I act', 'Only if it\'s something serious'],
   },
   {
     key: 'disappointmentResponse',
     question:
-      'When someone disappoints you while dating, what is your most natural response?',
-    options: ['Address directly', 'Withdraw', 'Reduce investment', 'Increase effort', 'Overthink'],
+      'He disappoints you. Not a dealbreaker, but it stings. What\'s your real reaction?',
+    options: ['I tell him directly', 'I go quiet and pull back', 'I lower my expectations', 'I try harder to make it work', 'I overthink it for days'],
   },
 ];
 
@@ -395,85 +411,81 @@ export interface TradeOffQuestion {
 export const TRADEOFF_QUESTIONS: TradeOffQuestion[] = [
   {
     key: 'consistencyVsChemistry',
-    question: 'Early in dating, if you had to choose, which matters more?',
+    question: 'You can only pick one. Which one wins — every time?',
     options: [
-      'Strong chemistry even if effort is inconsistent',
-      'Consistent effort even if chemistry builds slowly',
+      'Intense chemistry, even if he\'s inconsistent',
+      'Consistent effort, even if the spark is slow',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'stabilityVsIntensity',
-    question:
-      'Which emotional style do you generally feel more drawn to in a partner?',
-    options: ['Calm and emotionally steady', 'Deeply expressive and intense'],
+    question: 'Which one do you actually choose — not which one you should?',
+    options: ['The calm, stable one', 'The passionate, intense one'],
   },
   {
     key: 'financialStatusVsCharacter',
-    question:
-      'When it comes to money habits, which situation feels more comfortable in a partner?',
+    question: 'Money. Be honest — which one would you actually pick?',
     options: [
-      'Earns significantly but spends freely',
-      'Earns moderately but financially disciplined',
+      'Makes great money but spends recklessly',
+      'Makes less but is financially responsible',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'speedVsCertainty',
-    question: 'When a new relationship begins, which pace feels more natural?',
+    question: 'When something new starts, which version of you shows up?',
     options: [
-      'Fast progression with strong momentum',
-      'Slower progression with careful evaluation',
+      'I dive in fast when the energy is right',
+      'I slow down and evaluate before committing',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'independenceVsIntegration',
-    question: 'In an ideal relationship dynamic, which balance feels right?',
-    options: ['Strong independence', 'Lives integrate quickly'],
+    question: 'In a relationship, which one actually sounds like you?',
+    options: ['I need my own space and identity', 'I want our lives to merge quickly'],
   },
   {
     key: 'ambitionVsPresence',
-    question: 'Which type of partner appeals more?',
-    options: ['Highly career-focused', 'Prioritizes presence and availability'],
+    question: 'Which absence would hurt more?',
+    options: ['He\'s always around but has no ambition', 'He\'s ambitious but never available'],
   },
   {
     key: 'toleratedFlaw',
-    question:
-      'Looking back on dating experiences, which flaw do you tend to tolerate the longest?',
+    question: 'Which of these have you let slide the longest — and you know you shouldn\'t have?',
     options: [
-      'Slow texting',
-      'Slower commitment pace',
-      'Work-focused schedule',
-      'Low emotional expression',
+      'Bad at texting back',
+      'Won\'t commit at your pace',
+      'Always busy with work',
+      'Emotionally shut down',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'attractionKiller',
-    question: 'Which behavior makes you lose attraction the fastest?',
+    question: 'Which one makes you lose interest the fastest — even if everything else is good?',
     options: [
-      'Passive energy',
-      'Insecurity',
-      'Hot-and-cold behavior',
-      'Avoiding commitment conversations',
+      'No drive or initiative',
+      'Constant insecurity',
+      'Hot and cold behavior',
+      'Refuses to talk about where things are going',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'pastPattern',
-    question:
-      'Looking back honestly at your past relationships, which description feels closest to your pattern?',
+    question: 'Be honest about your track record. Which pattern keeps showing up?',
     options: [
-      'Choosing potential over proof',
-      'Staying too long',
-      'Leaving too early',
-      'Over-investing early',
+      'I fall for potential instead of proof',
+      'I stay way past the expiration date',
+      'I leave before giving it a real chance',
+      'I give too much too soon',
     ],
   },
   {
     key: 'earlyDatingTendency',
-    question: 'When dating someone new, which pattern best describes you?',
+    question: 'When someone new enters the picture, which version of you takes over?',
     options: [
-      'Focus on one person quickly',
-      'Keep multiple options open',
-      'Get attached quickly',
-      'Stay emotionally guarded',
+      'I lock in on one person immediately',
+      'I keep my options open',
+      'I get emotionally attached too fast',
+      'I keep a wall up no matter what',
     ],
   },
 ];